feat(http2): add http2_max_send_buf_size option to client and server

This value is like a high-water mark. It applies per stream. Once a
stream has buffered that amount of bytes to send, it won't poll more
data from the `HttpBody` until the stream has been able to flush under
it.

src/client/conn.rs

@@ -837,6 +837,21 @@ impl Builder {
         self
     }
 
+    /// Set the maximum write buffer size for each HTTP/2 stream.
+    ///
+    /// Default is currently 1MB, but may change.
+    ///
+    /// # Panics
+    ///
+    /// The value must be no larger than `u32::MAX`.
+    #[cfg(feature = "http2")]
+    #[cfg_attr(docsrs, doc(cfg(feature = "http2")))]
+    pub fn http2_max_send_buf_size(&mut self, max: usize) -> &mut Self {
+        assert!(max <= std::u32::MAX as usize);
+        self.h2_builder.max_send_buffer_size = max;
+        self
+    }
+
     /// Constructs a connection with the configured options and IO.
     /// See [`client::conn`](crate::client::conn) for more.
     ///