refactor(error): improve organization of Error kinds

- Placed all cases of "unexpected bytes" errors into the
  `UnexpectedMessage` variant.
- Placed all cases of "unexpected EOF" errors into the
  `IncompleteMessage` variant. Description is now generic about
  "connection closed before message completed", instead of mentioning
  "request" or "response.
- Added `Error::is_incomplete_message()` accessor to help checking for
  unexpected closures.
- Renamed some variants to be clearer when viewing the `Debug` format.
- Collected all "user" errors into an internal `User` enum, to prevent
  forgetting to update the `is_user()` method.

src/proto/h1/mod.rs

@@ -31,8 +31,21 @@ pub(crate) trait Http1Transaction {
 
     fn on_error(err: &::Error) -> Option<MessageHead<Self::Outgoing>>;
 
-    fn should_error_on_parse_eof() -> bool;
-    fn should_read_first() -> bool;
+    fn is_client() -> bool {
+        !Self::is_server()
+    }
+
+    fn is_server() -> bool {
+        !Self::is_client()
+    }
+
+    fn should_error_on_parse_eof() -> bool {
+        Self::is_client()
+    }
+
+    fn should_read_first() -> bool {
+        Self::is_server()
+    }
 
     fn update_date() {}
 }