Because `send_reset` called `recv_err`, which calls `reclaim_all_capacity`,
which eventually calls `transition(stream, ..)` -- all of which happens _before_
the RESET frame is enqueued -- it was possible for the stream to get unlinked
from the store (if there was any connection-level capacity to reassign). This
could then cause the stream to get "leaked" on drop/EOF since it would no longer
be iterated.
Fix this by delaying the call to `reclaim_all_capacity` _after_ enqueueing the
RESET frame.
A test demonstrating the issue is included.
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