This change adds a .rustfmt.toml that includes ALL supported settings,
12 of which we have overridden to attempt to cater to our own
proclivities.
rustfmt is checked in the rust-nightly CI job.
Previously, stream state was never released so that long-lived connections
leaked memory.
Now, stream states are reference-counted and freed from the stream slab
when complete. Locally reset streams are retained so that received frames
may be ignored.
Restructure send flow control such that sending data is always accepted by `Stream`. Data frames will be buffered until there is available window to send them. Producers can monitor the available window capacity to decide if data should be produced.
