This patch renames a number of types and functions making
the API more consistent.
* `Server` -> `Connection`
* `Client` -> `SendRequest`
* `Respond` -> `SendResponse`.
It also moves the handshake fns off of `Connection` and make
them free fns in the module. And `Connection::builder` is removed
in favor of `Builder::new`.
This change adds a .rustfmt.toml that includes ALL supported settings,
12 of which we have overridden to attempt to cater to our own
proclivities.
rustfmt is checked in the rust-nightly CI job.
